Quit Complaining!
A number of years ago Psychology Today ran an article about a man who committed three hours a day for 10 years to complaining. Each day he would call, write or talk to someone about what he thought was "wrong" with the world.
Rather than changing anything, the only result was that it made the man incrediably miserable.
Complaining is a habit that is highly contagious, especially when people work together in an office. When you are surrounded by complainers it's easy to become one yourself!
Here are four types of complainers:
- The Whiner. This person wakes up negative. Morning is a time to "rise and whine." The whiner's favorite phrase is "it's not fair!" He/she feels that everyone else gets the breaks in life.
- The Martyr. This person's favorite phrase is "no one appreciates me." The martyr is a pro at hosting pity parties. When they are under pressure or don't feel well, they let EVERYONE know it.
- The Cynic. Sarcasm is his/her most common form of communicating. "Nothing will ever change, so what's the use of making the effort." They seldom make a difference and often pretend they are somehow morally or intellectually superior to everyone else.
- The Perfectionist. This person is hard to please. Nothing is ever good enough. Their favorite phrase is usually "is that the best you can do?"
If you or your staff go home from the office totally exhausted every day, it may be because you have spent more time complaining than using your energy in a productive way. It's time to make changes in a positive direction...for yourself, your family, your office and your profession.
Start TODAY!


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