When there are TWO doctors in the house
My wife and I have been meeting chiropractors throughout Pennsylvania and have noticed a trend of "Dual doctor" marriages. I opened the blog for her to address this area, I think you will find it very interesting.
All the single ladies …
There is a popular song on the radio these days in which the lyrics state, “If you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it…” In my recollection from chiropractic college, it was quite common for students to date fellow students.
I was unable to find statistics for the chiropractic profession, but one study of medical doctors revealed that 22% of male physicians and 44% of female physicians were married to other physicians in what are known as “dual-doctor” marriages.
Since January of this year, Ryan and I have been in a “dual-DC” marriage. We have found there are some definite advantages (and yes, some disadvantages) to this arrangement which I will share with you.
Shared interest/understanding
Have you met that patient, friend, family member that you just can’t convince about the benefits of chiropractic care? Try marrying someone with that mindset. One of the greatest benefits to having a DC spouse is knowing that you come from the same philosophy. It is certainly of benefit in our relationship that we agree on issues of health which translates to what we eat, our shared activities, and eventually how we plan to raise our kids.
Closest colleague
Many conversations at our dinner table will sound like, “I had a patient today and…what do you think?” (No names used – it’s still a HIPAA violation, even if it’s your spouse!)
We have often conferred on issues of patient management, insurance or billing snafus, or office procedure issues. It is of great benefit to have an understanding sounding board right at your own kitchen table.
If you are in a dual-student DC relationship, it is much like having someone to study with or clarify that concept you missed in lecture.
“Free” help
This may or may not work for all couples, but it works for us. As you know, Ryan has his own office in a nearby community to mine.
While I do not practice in his office, I can be found behind the front desk one morning and one afternoon a week. I answer the phone, schedule patients, and do the billing and accounting. Initially we chose to do this to keep a low overhead as I am not an employee and I do not receive a paycheck.
However, we have found that this works for both of us in different ways. For Ryan, he feels comfortable that he can trust me to manage the administrative aspects of the office. For me, it makes me feel connected to a practice that we are building, even if I don’t practice there.
Double your debt
This is likely the most obvious (and the only) disadvantage I can think of to marrying a fellow chiropractor. These days, our education does not come cheap as those of you who just had your financial aid exit-interview have learned. Enjoy that 6-month grace period because when loans come into repayment for a dual-DC couple, monthly payments can total enough for a mortgage on a really, really nice house.
And speaking of mortgages, we are often told in school that “student loan debt is good debt.” While investing in your education is certainly a wise investment, banks tend not to look favorably on nearly a quarter-million in combined student loans. (Do the math, some of you dual-DC couples may even top the quarter-million mark!)
While these financial issues are certainly present in our relationship, they are thankfully not crippling. We lived like students for many years in school and continue to do so as we save for our first house. And we’re already planning a party for 2019 … the end of our 10-year loan term!
So, please comment if you have additional questions about “dual-DC” marriages. In my mind, there was no better answer when he “put a ring on it” than YES!


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